Fourteen years?! Has it really been THAT long?

Technically we met and started seeing each other 14yrs and a few days ago, but he didn’t officially “ask me out” until the 21st…and that is a VERY important detail when you are 16..right?

I much prefer this anniversary, the other one doesn’t seem as exciting..will never have the wow..that long factor? And a piece of paper can’t really beat being asked out by a cute guy with an awesome car ( he knows I was only in it for the car at first )

Fourteen years…I’ve spent nearly half my life with him…and he hasn’t suffocated me in my sleep and hidden my body in the chest freezer (I fit, lets not get into how I know that) if that isn’t true love, I don’t know what is.

I find myself wondering often how lucky I was to find him, how random it was that our paths crossed, someone who loves my fat crazy arse for who I am..no matter what..I break.

Love isn’t finding a perfect person. It’s seeing an imperfect person perfectly.

It isn’t that hard for me, apart from his slightly scary PS3 obsession and the fact that he refuses to get my name tattooed on his arse..he is pretty damn perfect.

His parents are celebrating their 38th anniversary this week, his grandparents their 60th this year. I am not sick of him yet, so we might last a few more years

I look forward to growing old, and probably fatter with him..spending Sundays napping in the park.

No presents tho, I am keeping an I.O.U for a certain new phone that is soon to be released

I guess he is pretty noice..come share your noice-ities over here

Getting in just in time this week for noice-ities, before it’s time to do it again tomorrow…

Noice…

• Public holidays without the guilt. Unlike Easter, I am not religious and hate the whole egg thing and ANZAC day where you feel a bit guilty having fun. We had a great weekend, spent Sunday at the park… kids having fun..me napping in the sun…forget what else we did, but I don’t remember wanting to stab them..so much have been good.
• Unemployed that is a sarcastic noice..it is not noice at all..3 days at home and I am already bored out of my brain.
• New Job start tomorrow. Nothing too exciting, another part time moderator job like I am already doing. Something different to keep me busy, and a bit more $$ for bills online shopping. Still searching for new IRL job, tho not sure exactly what to look for.

Not Noice…

• Car still borked been a week now. Guess I have no where to bloody go in it anyway. Waiting on parts from the UK. Holden wanted $530, and I can get it genuine from the UK posted for $150AUD..just means I have to wait a few days.
• Nearly losing AFW long and painful story short, host upgraded software on server, borked AFW forum database. No worries I say, lets install last nights backup..yeah, that would have been good..if there faking wasn’t one! EPIC meltdown..seems there has been backups of all the other sites on my VPS..expect the main one AFW. My fault for assuming, but FARK..why am I spending a bloody fortune for a MANAGED VPS. Support were useless, vBulletin support even more so. Managed to fix the bloody thing myself in the end. Shopping for new host.